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Why We Keep Watching Porn Even Though We Don’t Want To (And How to Break Free)
We all have habits. Some are harmless, like that morning cup of coffee (or three), and some are, well... less than ideal.
If you’ve ever found yourself watching porn even though deep down you don’t want to, you’re not alone. It’s frustrating, confusing, and at times, downright exhausting. So why does it keep happening?
More importantly, how do you finally put an end to it?




Why patience matters when fighting lust
There’s no better time than right now to finally face that one habit that’s been lingering for way too long. For a lot of us, that habit...
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May 272 min read


Brain Fog After Quitting Porn: Why It Happens and How to Handle It
Ever have one of those days where everything just feels… off? You’re unmotivated, foggy, a little cranky, maybe even sad for no real...
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May 203 min read


Dealing With Blue Balls on a NoFap Journey (Without Losing Your Mind)
Not many people talk about this, and almost no one warns you about it. You’re making solid progress on your NoFap journey, starting to feel more like yourself again, maybe you’ve just hit that two-week or two-and-a-half-week mark—and then out of nowhere, you’re doubled over wondering if something is seriously wrong. Spoiler alert: it’s not the end of the world. But I get it—it's uncomfortable, frustrating, and definitely not what you were expecting during a time that’s alrea
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May 123 min read


Break the Cycle of Shame from Porn
Shame has a sneaky way of convincing us we’re the problem.
Not just that we made a mistake—but that we are the mistake. And when it comes to struggling with porn, shame often sets up shop in our minds like a terrible roommate: noisy, critical, and absolutely rent-free.
Let’s be real. Most of us have been there. You try to move forward, but shame keeps dragging you back. It whispers, "You're disgusting," or "You'll never change," right when you're just trying to enjoy a
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Apr 213 min read


Accountability Helped Me Start Winning Against Lust
If you've ever tried to break a bad habit and thought, "This time I’ve totally got it," only to slip back into the same pattern again…...
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Apr 142 min read


Can You Actually Be Free from Lust?
Lust—it’s a word that carries a lot of weight. Some people say it’s just part of being human. Others believe it’s something you can...
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Apr 74 min read


When Lust Takes Over: How It Ruined My Enjoyment of Everyday Life
There was a time when I couldn’t sit still and just enjoy the simple things. A good book? Boring. A peaceful coffee shop hangout? Not...
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Mar 254 min read


How Accountability Helped Me Start Winning Against Lust
We all love a good underdog story—the hero fighting against impossible odds, determined to win. That was me when I first tried to quit...
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Mar 104 min read


Why We Keep Watching Porn Even Though We Don’t Want To (And How to Break Free)
We all have habits. Some are harmless, like that morning cup of coffee (or three), and some are, well... less than ideal. If you’ve ever...
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Mar 34 min read


Do You Even Really Want to Quit?
Let’s be real for a second—do you actually want to stop watching porn? Like, really want to? Or is it just one of those things you tell...
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Feb 242 min read


Maybe Later: The Simple Trick to Overcome Temptation
There are two easy words that can change everything for you as you rise above porn addiction. Just two words. Simple, effective, and way mor
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Feb 172 min read


Lust Is Not the Problem—Control Is
Let’s be real: Lust is a natural human feeling, especially for men. Trying to completely erase all lustful thoughts or attractions is not
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Feb 103 min read


I Thought I Defeated Lust for Good… But Then This Happened...
One of the most common withdrawal symptoms people experience after quitting porn is unexpected flashbacks. You might be feeling...
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Feb 32 min read


How Much Time Have You Wasted Watching Porn? (And What You Could Have Done Instead)
The first time I sat down to think about how much time and energy I’d wasted on porn, I was angry. Like, so angry I could’ve crushed an...
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Jan 274 min read


Why I Stopped Counting the Days Since I Last Watched Porn
How can we truly be free and live in the present moment or look forward to the future if we keep looking behind us? This is a question I...
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Jan 203 min read


Once I Learned This, I Knew I Was Addicted to Porn (Top 10 Signs You Might Be Too)
Once I Learned This, I Knew I Was Addicted to Porn (Top 10 Signs You Might Be Too)
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Jan 133 min read


Breaking Free: The Night That Changed Everything
I wish I could tell you that my journey to quitting porn was like a Hollywood movie—you know, the clouds part, a heavenly ray of light...
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Jan 63 min read


Breaking the Shame Cycle After Watching Porn: A Journey to Growth
If you’re here, chances are you’ve felt it—that gnawing pit in your stomach after a slip-up. Maybe you promised yourself, “Never again,”...
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Dec 31, 20244 min read


Welcome to Crazy Stupid Lust: Rising Above Lust and Porn Addiction Through Faith and Science
Hi, my name is Frankie Molinelli, and I’m so glad you’re here. Whether you stumbled across this blog by accident or you’re actively...
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Dec 27, 20243 min read
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